Jewish Tradition

The death of a loved one is perhaps the most commonly occurring event on earth, yet as individuals, most of us encounter death as a handful of singular experiences. Jewish ritual and tradition provide a safety net for us as we navigate this intensely personal journey, for both the dying person, and for those who care for, support, and ultimately mourn. There is some comfort to be found in the traditions which guide us, and which encourage us to acknowledge, mourn and situate our loss in the fabric of all those who have come before us.

Tradition, rituals, and values

Tradition provides us with a framework, within which our personal responses will be guided by our own values given the many factors at play in any situation. Every death is the same, yet infinitely different.

The Jewish values with which we live are also exemplified at the end of life:
Equality of all persons, an emphasis on simplicity and a lack of ostentatiousness, a realistic and practical approach, respect for the body which housed the soul, community support, and (for some) belief in God.

Jewish rituals surrounding dying, death, and mourning are among the most familiar and the most enduring across time and culture. Nonetheless, there are many variations and differences between communities. These rituals and customs are based in the practices and rituals of the past, harkening back to biblical sources, and run as a thread through all of Jewish history and literature. The understandings and approach through time and across locations has evolved, specific practices have differed, but the core values have remained.