THE JEWISH FUNERAL

Our guiding principle is KAVOD LAMET - Honor for the Deceased

The basic requirements of a Jewish funeral are:

SHMIRA - As a show of respect the deceased is not left alone from the time of death to the burial. The primary role of the Shomer is to offer comfort to the soul through the recitation of Tehillim (Psalms). We encourage family and friends to participate in Shmira. The Chesed Shel Emes will provide a Shomer at a family’s request and expense.

TAHARA - The ritual washing, purification and dressing of the deceased with reverence and care, by the Chevra Kadisha (Holy Society). Men prepare men and women prepare women in accordance with Orthodox tradition.

TACHRICHIM - The traditional white burial shroud represents priestly garments worn in times of the Temple. The set includes head covering, shirt, pants, jacket or kittel, belt and a wrapping sheet. Men are also wrapped in the Tallit they wore during their lives.

ARON - The simple wooden casket with no metal components is in keeping with the Biblical teaching "For dust thou art and to the dust thou shalt return." (Genesis 3:19). Earth from Israel in a small cloth bag is placed under the head of the deceased to symbolize our spiritual return to the Holy Land.

K’VURAH BAKARKA - In ground burial is required by Jewish law. Accompanying the deceased and filling in the grave is a religious privilege and is an expression of honor to the deceased.

• Internment should not be unduly delayed. Delays for immediate family are acceptable within a reasonable period of time.

• A Jewish funeral should in every way express respect and solemnity. Flowers and music are not part of a Jewish funeral service.

• It is the responsibility of the family to provide six Jewish men to act as pallbearers.

• Viewing the remains is not practiced.

• Cremation is a violation of Jewish law. Cremains are not to be buried in a Jewish cemetery.